Loving someone from a distance

Sometimes in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We missed out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow our selves to be enslaved by our selfish concerns.

Not for the man of deeds and not for the man of words you will find a rewarding happiness but with the man who loves you more. The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.

To let go of someone doesn't  mean you to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness and not expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person to be free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness hatred and anger that are kept in your heart. Do not let the bitterness rare away from your faith and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather you grow with wisdom in hearing it.

You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We  can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness comes only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person, this feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday life and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You dont have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or feeling sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run yourself, be sensible and listen to your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone  better is coming tomorrow. if you lose Love it doesn't mean that you failed in Love. Cry if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you with.

P. S.

Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you and when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay for lifetime.

pintada at 39

Oh my God!...Its been a year since my last post, This ain't right, I've been missing a lot of  events, happenings and posts not to say... Well I couldn't be much happier now , knowing that there are people who view my blog even if its not updated and 'IN' (inaamag na ang blog ko huhuhu). I'd like to extend my grateful thanks for those who do visit and spend time reading here, although I dont get to write that much I visit other bloggers page whenever I can. There are times when we want to write but the thoughts are not there, (most of the time it happens to me hehehe) of course we want to share good thoughts so its just right that we condition our minds before sharing anything in our page. Its been a busy year and looking forward to the last quarter and Christmas (yehey) reminds me of  gifts (yooohoooo), but this is not what I wanted to blurt this time. I'd like to tell you that I have been spending so much time praying...Yes, and I really really am enjoying the peace that prayers bring. Its like you dont care what will happen tomorrow or the next day or for the rest of your life, because you know that your life is in God's loving care and He is alive in You. My everyday experience of God talking to me in the events of my daily life, is such a wonderful miracle that not everyone can decipher. Only when we talk back to God and live  and obey His commandments that we understand what He wants us to be. I can relate my spiritual experience to a topsy turvy confusion, which should not be so, thats why I'm so happy now that i can express the peacefulness and solemnity of God's presence in me. Lets just say, na kung dati palasimba ako (which I still am, and much more so ngayon) always present but something was missing,..and now, still I go to church but my heart goes with me, and everytime I hear every mass I feel that God is welcoming me and my heart opens to Him everytime. I have so much to pray for, and I wish and pray for everyone to see God open their hearts and welcome Him, its free, we only have to pray and pray and pray. We only have to look around us, see and understand what God is trying to say to us. Whatever you are doing right now, whoever you are talking to, whatever is in your mind, your thoughts, whatever sign you've seen, whatever it says, understand, whatever it is, consider that it is God talking to you. This month I turned 39 and I thank God for blessing me with blissful years with family, loved ones and friends, (looking forward for more heavenly years of happiness with God).

Wrapping up this post with a picture of God's creation. Hopefully I could visit again and write more...Shalom everyone and May the Good Lord shower you with more of His blessings and shield you with His love and protection.