Loving someone from a distance

Sometimes in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We missed out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow our selves to be enslaved by our selfish concerns.

Not for the man of deeds and not for the man of words you will find a rewarding happiness but with the man who loves you more. The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.

To let go of someone doesn't  mean you to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness and not expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person to be free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness hatred and anger that are kept in your heart. Do not let the bitterness rare away from your faith and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather you grow with wisdom in hearing it.

You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We  can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness comes only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person, this feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday life and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You dont have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or feeling sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run yourself, be sensible and listen to your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone  better is coming tomorrow. if you lose Love it doesn't mean that you failed in Love. Cry if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you with.

P. S.

Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you and when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay for lifetime.